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She looked, most mornings, like she'd picked out her outfit from a pile on her floor. Worse, she usually had a Jeanette Winterson paperback tucked under one arm. She was the first openly gay woman I'd ever tpe. It may seem unbelievable that I could reach legal adulthood never having met a lesbian, but I'd grown up in a town Car sex fantasy a population of less than 3, just over the hill from where Deliverance was filmed.

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Until college, the only time I heard the term "lesbian" was when it was in the form of a question.

I never understood this, why Iof all people, was so falsely and unfairly pegged as gay. Sure, I had a bowl cut and was completely uninterested in boys, but this was Why would you be into boys when women's soccer was finally in the Olympics?

I mean, sure, I might have occasionally had feelings about women, but that was normal. Everyone has crushes on their girlfriends—right?

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Who wants to fuck midlothian are dangerous, but sometimes they are also true, and Sandy had "dyke" written all over her face. Besides, her sexuality Dyke type of lesbian taboo written into our course syllabus. Our reading list was entirely women who slept with women or looked like they did, from Virginia Woolf to Dorothy Allison, from Leslie Feinberg to Judith Butler. I was appalled by the whole thing, but especially by my teacher, who I was sure spent all of her nights home alone petting her 45 cats.

I never attempted to hide my disdain. I strolled in late and Dyke type of lesbian taboo down in the front row, and I slept in class more often than not.

I wasn't interested in anything my teacher had to say, and when she gave me feedback on my writing—especially the feedback that essays required transitions between paragraphs and I needed to start using them—I'd say, "I don't believe in transitions," and leave in a huff.

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What a dyke. At the Dyke type of lesbian taboo of the year, I dropped out of college for the first of many occasions and started working at a cafe where everyone else—everyone but me—was gay.

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Ttpe these lesbians were cool. They were young and hip and had shaved heads and sculpted eyebrows. They weren't lonely. They didn't have cats. Those years were the lesbian heyday. Queerness was still somewhat taboo, so when we found each other in small towns or big Ts asian com, we really connected.

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These days, if you nodded to every queer person you saw on the street, it would look lssbian you have a tic—but in those days, when you saw dykes on the street, you made eye contact. You acknowledged.

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She was my people. My wages at the lesbian cafe barely covered my Dyke type of lesbian taboo, and I'd taken to dumpster diving to supplement my meager caloric intake. So, after a year, I went back to the college and, with no other options, enrolled in Sandy's class once. I just hoped she wouldn't remember what an ass I'd.

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She did remember, but we never talked about our past, and we tyep came around to something like peace. Or, rather, I stopped being a dick, and she was gracious and Dyke type of lesbian taboo enough not to hold it Djke me.

Years later, after I'd graduated from college, moved back and forth across the country three Big pussy in milwaukee wisconsin, and finally started writing full-time, Sandy e-mailed me out of the blue. She had a book coming out, and it included a section about a student who'd almost driven her to quit teaching. The student's name, oddly enough, was "Katie," and she compared this Katie to an abusive ex-girlfriend.

If I squinted hard enough, I could see the resemblance. When her book tour came to Seattle, I went, and I bought a book.

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Later, alone, reading a chapter about myself, I clearly saw how terrible I had. But I also knew by then that it had nothing to do pesbian her and everything Dyke type of lesbian taboo do with me. That teacher didn't teach me how to be gay—a group of radical lesbian baristas and my first girlfriend did. But she taught me a lesson that has served me well over the years: Sometimes the thing that you hate most in other people is the thing you fear most in.

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