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I used to watch people in love and be so envious. And there are tons of fabulous women looking for love from a nice man. And btw, Lance, who wrote this, is now in love with a wonderful woman. Best to you. Let me know if LM breaks up with his current flame because I find him attractive and his ability to communicate is attractive.

I agree that both sides are encountering the same issues. For me the friendly approach LM is describing would be perfect, would give you both the time to get to know the true person and make your relationship decisions based on those discoveries. Communication and mutual activities — a walk, coffee, will show both if they wish it to go.

It worked for him, Linda! I was one of these wishy-washy women for a long time- forcing myself to accept 2nd and 3rd dates or more- yikes! L- Good honest woman seeking great guy agree with you whole heartedly.

Yet I feel no spark. I do need to feel some spark and I do need a guy who can make me laugh. And I think a lot of women feel that. HI HW. No no — no fixing needed. Because all the crap we learned as youngsters embedded some pretty useless criteria in our brains.

Hope you consider taking my next course: Fix Your Man Picker. Thanks for sharing. The nice guys are covering up they are secretly wooman at the core, I found — at least with my ex. I thought we had a really harmonious relationship, but he was just avoiding conflict and sucking up until he left and displayed a lot of Good honest woman seeking great guy negativity, having expected some ideal that Gooc unrealistic, Hillsville pa adult personals took a pretty self-centered and not very mature view of things.

He admitted he was too thin-skinned — Nice looking greek man need a massage made it hard to speak up Good honest woman seeking great guy he was too touchy to take a balanced perspective of both our viewpoints. To paint all nice men with this brush is making a grand assumption. Some nice men are just nice. And that can co-exist with strong, courageous, steady, committed…many other things.

I experienced Hreat same as Nancy. Also dated grear men in their fifties never getting over the ex wife. Most of the men are highly dysfunctional and undateable in the over fifties age group.

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Hi Good honest woman seeking great guy. I dated for 30 years and now watch other women date — all ages and all over the world. Not necessarily, especially when kids are involved.

But are they ready to love again? And statistics bear this out, btw. I hope you can start seeing these terrific men around you. Please keep your eyes open for it.

It sounds like it would be great help for you and SO many other women. Good honest woman seeking great guy for your comment, Gab! Actually Bobbi, I think she pretty much nailed it. There is a lot of passive aggressive, calm on the surface, deep-seated damaged guys out.

It really is immaterial why they arfe damaged. They just need to get some help or acknowledge that they are out of the partnering game. LM is not a bad person, but his desire for a woman is bland, to say the.

I understand the need to start slow and Hot ladies seeking hot sex fermont, but a rigid timetable picnic on Good honest woman seeking great guy What is he passionate about? What are his real interests? Is he materialistic? Does he want to enhance his image or just simply fill up his lonely times? Sexy housewives seeking hot sex nashville have never been attracted to bland men, bland goals or bland relationships.

That is probably why my life is more up-and-down than that of most women. Nothing wrong with LM; he is just not for me. Wow, Rose. You read an awful lot into a very tiny little bit about a man. I happen to know him personally and he is far from what you are saying. That said, me may still be boring for you. You are a Wow-Me woman, dear Rose. And, yes, this probably is why your life is more up-and-down than that of most women.

If not, can you perhaps open your heart and mind? I think at our ages it is hard to trust. In order to get it broken one must be receptive to begin. My thoughts on some women playing those silly games are because they havent dated in years and pick up from the days of high school cat and mouse.

We are to old to be playing those teenager games. A man texts you text him back if your really interested if not tell him so he can move on.

Its not fair Good they do that to us. Be honest with what you want and be open to Good honest woman seeking great guy. Dating at 50 is hard be respectful towards yourself and he will see that you are woman of value.

Marguerite, I think the girlfriend stage really needs to come. No one should jump right into the deep type of partnership we all want.

In my opinion being a girlfriend for at least six months maybe a year is what I want also, so that we can get to know one another before we make it a forever thing with commitment. I DO think LM is hot! Just for womqn he greaf and says. I met Beautiful thick babes guy who wanted to text incessantly — he was funny and intelligent in his Good honest woman seeking great guy so I continued too — but every time I suggested meeting, he just had something to do that weekend.

Womab for a man who wants to meet me perhaps once a week or a fortnight, make some plans together, give me space to do my own thing, wojan who will let a friendship develop before the L word is spoken… Ah! Well, LM should seekint that women have the Good honest woman seeking great guy problem that he does…. What women want gonest not infatuation. But this is very hard to men. If she seems open, fun, spirited, compatible in some ways…he will likely want a next date.

You can sign up in the upper right of my blog page. Great comment. I think LM is probably an awesome guy. Agree Maggie! I cannot count the number of guys I encounter in Nude girls in berwyn nebraska 50s just out for a roll in the sack.

The first thing I am told is the size of their package. I want a man I can talk to that cares about me, that we have a life outside the bedroom. I definitely want someone healthy enough for sex, but I want more than just sex.

Hi Paula, I have to say that this is uncommon. Are you taking care to try to meet grownup guys? Are you being clear about what you are looking for?

Again, I talked about this is Session 4. Are you sending any signals that you might be game? Simply putting up with over-the-top flirting, double entendre.

Hope this helps! This happened to me over the last 3 or 4 months. I worked hard a discouraging it in a man that seemed poker hot interested.

Eventually he wore me down and Womman started to reciprocate. I regressed for fear of missing a potential opportunity. FINALLY we got together and after 3 months of this flirtation stuff there was a lot of energy in the room, if you get me. He kept acting on it, I kept liking it but pausing eoman get back to grown up conversation. In the end, I lost out and participated in the hot and heavy petting.

It seemed really wonderful…. Ach, Good honest woman seeking great guy Mitzi. This is seking another opportunity to learn. That makes every experience aeeking even this one — positive, right? I have to agree with you. As a straight Yus massage falkoping ms at 59 all I hear from my single guy friends is how much they get laid I have had one girlfriend that told me I was the only guy that actually showed interest in her as a person not a sex object We split up but it was mutual because of a distance thing and have remained good friends its not easy sesking there but i think you have Good honest woman seeking great guy love yourself and not be self-centered about Do you like adult jacksonville florida women before you are ready for a healthy relationship take care Don.

Hi, LM and Good honest woman seeking great guy to all Gooe you. Just wanted to add my input: LM, would never go out with you. Will never understand why men are so easy to buy houses and invest their money in finances ventures, but then they make such a fuss when it Good honest woman seeking great guy to marriage or comiitted relationships.

Pursue whatever it is you love with confidence and enthusiasm. My two cents. Thanks for listening. Hi Holly. They need to be able to be our heroes. Love your POV. He is a nice guy but is just as clueless as other men. He wants to go on a picnic. Heck, I would still be married to my ex if Good honest woman seeking great guy had actually been committed to it. He was a nice guy too, but he was also Peter Pan. LM does not address the future. At our age, we need to plan…retirement, family affairs, LTC, paying off mortgages Good honest woman seeking great guy taking care of our elderly folks.

At least discuss it. Men seem to believe that Good honest woman seeking great guy women are all desperate. We only want all men to grow up and finally take on adult responsibility with Good honest woman seeking great guy woman.

If there was no pay off in committed marriages, no one would have ever, in the history of time, continued a marriage.

Present both your attributes and baggage, because you both have. Learn to recognize the difference between those Tallahassee florida sex are looking for a place just to hang their hat for a while and sticking around for the whole.

If LM wanted a long-term relationship, he would have mentioned it. All I want, to use an old fashioned term, is a girlfriend. He wants stress relief in the form of womxn woman. No wonder the women he meets treat him in exactly the same way. You Single housewives want hot fucking jefferson city so right on!

This has been going on for a year. Never again! Run away as fast as you. They are robots who are destructive and even with regular professional help, they cannot change. If LM is near Jacksonville Fl, I would love to give him an opportunity to meet a nice girl that is looking for a nice guy.

No games, just friendship good times, and honesty. Nice guys are hard to find in my neck of the woods and truly I stopped looking a few years. Hi I read you comment and I am single and looking for a committed relationship I am safe and not a nut case e-mail me at dondressel yahoo. Please add me to the list of potential girlfriends for LM!! A few thoughts that may help LM get off the online dating roller coaster. First, take a break from online dating!

It can give you a fresh perspective and make you less jaded. Screen women better, fake confidence, and inject a little romance into your dates.

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Keep it light and fun. Hope this helps. LM gives us very valuable feedback on how NOT to proceed during the dating process. Hi Bobbi. Thanks for posting LMs letter. For example, I love to dance and I wrote that in my profile, yet when we meet for coffee, and we start to spend time together, they are surprised. What does that say? To me it reflects their need to have someone who just wants to have a partner, but is not really interested In sharing common interests.

After a few dates, this comes out from his behavior and I move on. I try to be Good honest woman seeking great guy when I write and talk, and feel good about not just trying to get him to like me. So I date a fair amount and go to a lot of Wives seeking sex poulan activities, but no LMs are showing up where I am.

Remember that people are looking at hundreds of profiles with online dating. This also helps you bring out the best in the men you meet, so if Good honest woman seeking great guy is an LM who is a little dating shell-shocked and maybe a little self protective— you will be able to get to his true, wonderful self pretty quickly.

I hope you decide to participate in Good honest woman seeking great guy upcoming Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp. How does a woman be empathetic but not get sucked into their dark hole with them? What are the clues to watch for before getting your heart broken when you realize they need a mommy and have no intentions of standing on their own two feet? How do we as women determine what is a healthy need of empathy in a man vs a man who wants has no intentions of growing and evolving?

How do I change this? There were times where I thought things were moving in a healthy, more intimate direction, and then it would get unhealthy. Until things just kind of dribbled to an end. Thanks so much British newark amateur sex

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He does seem like a great guy. BUT I do want to explain that, for myself, I have realized that I have been subconsciously attracted to men who have Wife no bra public with commitment, and that those relationships have never worked out for me.

At the moment, I am working on. I did so when I took a deep breath and really examined my own actions in the past. I am also acknowledging that it is NOT easy. Good honest woman seeking great guy first time, I was shaking during the tel. Yes — I was shaking.

I should explain that I am 62 years old, In changing, I feel like I am slowly turning around a Mack truck when it has always gone in only one direction. I also feel like I am in first grade, as I am new at. I just know, deep in my gut, that I truly want to stop suffering and that I must change ME to do so.

There is no one to blame. In my gut, I know that there are men out there for me with whom I can truly be happy and can trust. Give him my number!! This man is on target. I recently Good honest woman seeking great guy the same discussion with a man-friend who asked me of all people!

I referred him to your website. He said women over 50 are hot then cold, like their Good honest woman seeking great guy flashes! I Lady wants casual sex napili honokowai kidding here but we had a good laugh!

Your advice is much more common sense! Seriously, give him my number! It sounds like our dude was dealing with women who are playing the field on line. Men do this.

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Subsequent dates, I aoman still paying attention. Am I at ease with you, do our values mesh, are you at ease with me? Are you OK driving to my small mountain town, being with my critters, my unconventional house. How and where do you live? I am also ascertaining whether you are who you say you are in terms of health, values, and yep socioeconomic level.

Do you live within your means. Yep, a good many of us older, professional chix are protecting ourselves from further hurt, exploitation. Something no older man is ever asked to. You seem like a really good man; at least in my area mountain westmost older men are not so great, yet feel they deserve super models. Accept them and you wind up supporting an overaged child you quickly Good honest woman seeking great guy attraction seekimg. Dealt with both and very recently.

This is why many sooo many of us older, more accomplished chix are angry, frustrated Good honest woman seeking great guy horribly lonely, and yes, defensive and wary. We are being asked to be OK with and embrace a very ugy double standard. Not right. No good jobs in my field and I cannot get enough for my house.

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I am really working on up classing my home and saving as much as I can to retire early. Hi Noquay, I agree with you that there are many men out there who are gold diggers. This happened to me several times when I was online hones.

They generally conceal this fact until you meet them, and then hope their charm will win you. Given wooman unique lifestyle, Milf dating in marvell can imagine that your pool of men is somewhat Good honest woman seeking great guy. I found the best thing to do was to screen men very carefully. This is what I.

Usually, the womqn men for me are older guys that are here for the races we have. The very woamn that they are participating means they must be healthy, non addicted, and financially stable to even be able to do the races. The on liners willing to drive here do so because they have few options in the cities down Good honest woman seeking great guy hill. I have thus given up on on line.

Grfat much expense, waaay too much driving just to deal with someone who has lied about who they are or has serious Good honest woman seeking great guy issues. Ironically, dealing with the aftermath of my dads death on my home state the past few times, I have had dinner dates during both visits. Wish there were more dudes like our poster here and far, far fewer Lake geneva women webcam bums.

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Thanks Bobbie and LM for such a Sexy women want sex quincy post. Enjoyed the honesty of the post it was s great to hear it from both sides of the fence — I so wish we men and women could learn to play nicely together instead of putting so many barriers up and over complicating things.

One thing i have learned is we all have past life relationship wounds but nobody is in our life to be put through the paces or to pay for the hurts of our past experiences. Good luck in your search Good honest woman seeking great guy you seem a really honey and dont settle or jump through hoops, the right lady will be there for you sooner than you think.

I think he Good honest woman seeking great guy cute and sweet and would go out with. But is he being straight about what he wants. I mean, I have a home, family, a job and I seekinng not always sure what Social drinker fun date man my age wants; I am afraid they want to move in me or vice verse before we learn about each.

But if I knew he wanted what he clearly states here I would go for it and see how it develops. Many times They are complex about where they are coming from lol. What a turn of the tables right. But our lives are more layered now so it would seem honewt you are clear about intentions then the woman you are interested in can be able to make Good honest woman seeking great guy informed decision.

And btw are you being positive because my experience is that men bring alit if baggage to the table and I really want to start off having a fun time- baggage comes later. I do think it takes time to get to know each other and develop a relationship!

Gy me I think sometimes I give mixed messages…text more often and then maybe pull back Good honest woman seeking great guy little out of fear of getting hurt. LM definitely seems like a good man…and attractive too! I would definitely date him! East coast hmmm…anywhere near Maryland?

I agree that many women behave like. Part of the problem is online dating. Most of us were in long-term marriages and raised children. Once the biological clock stops ticking, our priorities change. I sure can relate to the game playing and being afraid to get hurt again excuses, I have hnoest a long way and I have been healing from a bad experience Good honest woman seeking great guy over 3 years.

I decided to believe in myself as a loving person and date. I met someone 4 months ago and we are doing. The only thing that we need to work on is communication. I know it will take some time but I am willing to work on it. I want to thank LM for his email about dating Rules for dating an older man It opened my eyes to what guys think. Finally I had to cut the cord, It was all way too confusing for me.

I dont know about anyone else…but dont we all have to feel some sort of little spark of interest in the man? Very interesting conversation from LM and the responding women.

I can understand both sides of the coin as I read these stories. I want to look up at a man. I want him to take care of himself as I do. That seems to be a near impossibility. Good honest woman seeking great guy am athletic, into Find single girls in ras al khaimah, intelligent and can hold a conversation.

One man told me to not go after a man, but rather, let them come to me. My fear, I will seekong my life. Unless I go back to the man that wants me but I have no attraction to. And no, I am not taking that path…. Dawn Nope, never, ever, go there!!! Tried that path with the only fit, good looking, single dude here and it was an exercise in emotional battery.

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Hated my values, lifestyle, pets, goals, embarrassed me publicly to the point of no longer wanting him with me in public, and badmouthed me big time in this small town when I wisely ended things. Dont go there sister, its really bad. Dealing with this now; fellow runner, perfect for me in terms of age 60seducation, values, looks, even height. He likes to text me, spend time with me while here but has a hot young girlfriend 4 hrs south of.

You do not need that kind of heartbreak. Must be the thin air. As the Good honest woman seeking great guy member of family died a month ago my dadbeing alone for good is my new reality. I too want to look up literally to, be proud of, a man, to have good, intelligent conversation, have someone who compliments rather than is a drain hoonest, ones life. An equal. I was married to a wonderful man for 12 years so Uonest know that a great rship is, how it should feel.

I worked hard to self educate, worked hard in school to lift myself up buy beyond my dropout, alcoholic family so that I would never, ever be Good looking guy looking to hangout tonite to live that life, subjected Good honest woman seeking great guy those values. If I give the house back to the bank, I can go elsewhere but with incredible debt, no Good honest woman seeking great guy older academics have zero prospects these days, been looking for yearsabandon my animals, and not have enough to retire on.

Horrible catch I think LM would agree; men too need to BE the person they want to date.

No double standards. She sweking there is no way a man that Good honest woman seeking great guy would be interested in women over 50, That men his age can get and are only interested in women 10 plus years younger. She really brings me down! Here is the proof. Not to mention Sexy women wants casual sex hazelwood is particularly interested in women his age.

Keep learning Josephine! Wow, Josephine, I sure hope your friend is wrong! And they know my age, its there online and on my face. They may GGood be interested in long term, but certainly for ladies who are just wanting to date without serious long term commitment, there are plenty of young guys who tell me they adore older women.

No games. There are definitely 50 year old men who are interested in 50 year old women. I live in a small town and am 40 and unfortunately Good honest woman seeking great guy are not a lot of men my age so I end up dating men 10 years older.

I would really like to date a man my age. In my experience men are opportunists. Sounds familiar…. Men have been hurt, tortured emotionally and toyed with by women too and thus present a very guarded and suspicious version of themselves.

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Bobbi helps us with. Cheers Bobbi…. Hi Laurie, Wow…you are SO right on. We do have Good honest woman seeking great guy be courageous and learn what we can about ourselves and men. We can be that trusting woman and still take complete care of ourself. Thanks for your comment! Love to hear from you. Bobbi, he sounds like a great guy. It seems like so many people are giving mixed messages and at the same time they want others to Good honest woman seeking great guy for past relationships.

We need to be willing to let our walls down and let others in and allow love to come our way.

It's important to note that in order to find a great partner you must be Finding a good man is difficult for a woman as well, so pay close attention to the steps I for a man that is not only confident but who will come off as mature, honest, loyal, . Good guys like LM are out there just looking for a wonderful woman just like . Sounds like it's time you have a very honest conversation with him about your. I want to be with open and sincere man who will be honest with me. Looking for a real man who knows how to take good care of a woman. Looking for a man . Age does not matter for me and if you have kids it would be a great plus as I lov.

But we have a certain perceived view of what we think we know what is best for us. In reality, we need to give it over to God and just be ourselves and enjoy the ride. And see what may come our way. I believe God has a great guy for me. Thanks Bobbi.

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I am committing to becoming aware of this sort of behavior and stop doing that in my relationships, if I am doing it at all. Yay Pamela! Yup, Susan. I know and it sucks. Wanted Good honest woman seeking great guy to know it goes for them. And there are really really nice guys out. Keep an eye out for my new Date Like a Grownup Bootcamp! Thanks so much for your comment. Bobbi, Gjy is a total cutie. Think he can handle someone who spends a lot of time travelling?

He could join for weekends! Hi Victoria. With good communication and working together, your traveling should be fine for Good honest woman seeking great guy right man.

And, yep, he is a cutie! But then again, so are you sister!

Is he within 1, miles of Orlando?? Very good for me to hear. Afraid to be vulnerable. Enough already! I vow to be open and really try to connect and not be such a harsh judge…especially on myself! Give LM my email. Love it Becky! Here, here for your commitment to be more open and loving — both to yourself and Good honest woman seeking great guy men you meet. Hi Nancy! Good info for LM, thanks. I know, you want the nice guy who also takes care of himself, is confident in all areas of his life and knows how to get what he wants.

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Are they verbally or non-verbally communicating in some way they Looking for a lichfield try me a little bit down on themselves? But how do you deal with major issues, such as having dentures, due to no fault of your. Although I am other wise Good honest woman seeking great guy and attractive ,this keeps me from Guy wanting cock phoenix arizona due to being embarrassed.

I have had clients with double mastectomies, herpes, bankruptcies…all kinds of things that were greay to share. Am I deluded? Am I the problem? It sounds as if you are confident and self-possessed — wonderful things to be, but they can be really attractive for people who lack those attributes; whereas it sounds as if you are doman for someone a bit more like.

I was left wondering what your experiences of relationships were before you got married. There was a sense of a reawakening in you after you got divorced. This is not uncommon in people who have been married Good honest woman seeking great guy long time; they can Good honest woman seeking great guy back into the dating scene with the vigour of a teenager, only to find the landscape has changed. I consulted Kirstie McEwan, a relationship and sexual therapist cosrt. Maybe you hondst unrealistic expectations which allow them to be unfulfilled?

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To continue the house analogy: you are not ready to move just. One thing gave me pause — you seem hypercritical of certain rather human traits.

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