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Black women have told me it's because I'm a sellout. The white men who can get past the mental anguish of boack black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women. White women range from those so intrigued gjrls black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men Hot white girls with black men it feels more racist than preference-driven.

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By middle school, and especially high school, those expectations were even more apparent. I started to see what it really meant to be in an interracial relationship.


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But there were white girls at school who were fucking with me and that's who I went. Still, I can't help but wonder if I've been brainwashed by the Eurocentric beauty standards that dominate the world.

I've had varying degrees of romance with women of most races—beyond the black and white binary. Personality is always decisive, but we know that physical attraction is important.